How to tell someone you're not interested

Try this

I've really enjoyed getting to know you, and I want to be straight with you rather than just go quiet: I'm not feeling a romantic connection. You've been nothing but kind and I didn't want to leave you guessing.

The key: Be kind AND clear. Softening it into a maybe is crueler than a clean, warm no.

Write YOUR exact message → sided does it for you

This is a starting point — but the right words depend on who they are and your history. Tell Sided what you need to say and it writes it in your voice, a few ways.

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