Sided

How to say the hard things

How to respond to being ghosted

Try this

Hey — no hard feelings if you've moved on, I'd genuinely just rather know than guess. If you're not feeling it, that's completely okay to say.

The key: One clean message, zero neediness, an explicit out for them. It reads as secure, not desperate — and secure is what actually gets a reply.

Write YOUR exact message → sided does it for you

This is a starting point — but the right words depend on who they are and your history. Tell Sided what you need to say and it writes it in your voice, a few ways.

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