Sided

How to say the hard things

How to text someone after a fight

Try this

Hey. I've cooled down and I don't like where we left it. I'm not trying to relitigate the whole thing — I just don't want a night of silence to turn into a wall. Can we talk when you're ready?

The key: Lead with de-escalation, not your case. The first text after a fight is to reopen the door, not to win the round.

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This is a starting point — but the right words depend on who they are and your history. Tell Sided what you need to say and it writes it in your voice, a few ways.

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