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How to say the hard things

How to text someone you just met

Try this

Hey! It was really good talking to you last night — you were right about that band, I fell down a whole rabbit hole. What else have you been holding out on me?

The key: Reference the actual moment you shared and hand them an open thread. Specific + a little playful beats "hey, it's [name] from last night" every time.

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This is a starting point — but the right words depend on who they are and your history. Tell Sided what you need to say and it writes it in your voice, a few ways.

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