How to text your crush (without being weird)

Try this

Random, but that thing you said about horror movies has been living in my head. What got you into them?

The key: Reference something specific THEY said and ask an open question. A bare "hey" puts all the work on them; curiosity about them is the pull.

Write YOUR exact message → sided does it for you

This is a starting point — but the right words depend on who they are and your history. Tell Sided what you need to say and it writes it in your voice, a few ways.

More hard messages

say no to plans
apologize over text
set a boundary with someone
cancel plans last minute
tell someone you're not interested
bring up a problem