Decoding the texts everyone gets
The eye-roll react is contempt in a single tap โ "I find this ridiculous and won't dignify it with words." On a joke it's playful; on anything you meant, it's dismissive.
Watch the frequency. An occasional eye-roll is banter. A habit of them is one of the most corrosive patterns in any relationship โ contempt is the thing that quietly ends things.
Decode YOUR exact message โ it depends on contextThese are the patterns โ but the same word means different things from different people. Sided reads your actual conversation and tells you what THIS person means, and what to say back.