Decoding the texts everyone gets
Someone who watches your story but never texts is telling you exactly where you stand: interesting enough to keep an eye on, not important enough to reach out to. It's low-effort attention — they like knowing about you, they're just not choosing you.
Passive watching is not the same as wanting you. If you want to know which it is, give them something to reply to directly — and notice whether they take it or keep lurking. Lurking is an answer.
Read YOUR match's interest → freeThese are the patterns — but the same word means different things from different people. Sided reads your actual conversation and tells you what THIS person means, and what to say back.