Decoding the texts everyone gets
"wyd" is rarely a real question about your schedule. It's a low-effort probe — "are you free, and do I feel like doing something about it?" — that quietly asks YOU to make the plan so they don't have to.
Sent to one person it can be genuine interest; sent at 11pm to several it's convenience. The tell is whether they follow it with an actual idea or just wait for you to carry it.
Decode YOUR exact message → it depends on contextThese are the patterns — but the same word means different things from different people. Sided reads your actual conversation and tells you what THIS person means, and what to say back.